Unexpected: the last 48 hours

Welcome to Part 4 of the Unexpected series, which is all about how I met this young man named Sayo last year. If you need to, you can catch up on how it started, the first 48 hours, and the List and other misunderstandings.

I apologize for the longer-than-usual delay to share this post—you’re so kind to stick with me! In response to a comment and question that I’ve received: Continue reading

Unexpected: the List and other misunderstandings

If you’re keeping track, this is the third part of the Unexpected series. Catch up on how it started and the first 48 hours.

Our first date went well so I was looking forward to seeing Sayo again. We were talking a lot (in person at my grandmother’s house, on the phone, and through Facebook messenger). I’m a grouch in the mornings but I was getting used to waking up to a cheery good morning message from Sayo—his messages made me believe that he was happy to be alive. Even today, I feel cheated if for some reason I don’t see that good morning message when I wake up.

It wasn’t all romance though; we had misunderstandings along the way. Continue reading

Thankful: June 2017

June is my favourite month of the year and not just because it’s my birthday month! Summer in Canada officially begins in June and if you lived in Ottawa, where the winters are long and c-o-l-d, you’d understand why summer is such a big deal (full disclosure: it did hail yesterday—yup, ice pellets—so summer isn’t off to the warmest start but we have hope). It’s time for another Thankful post so let’s get started!

  1. I’m thankful for my sister and her husband’s accomplishments while my mom and I were in Nigeria: they worked on things that will move them forward as a family and it was great to come back and celebrate with them. There’s so much happening in that family to give God thanks for and I look forward to sharing Continue reading

Unexpected: the first 48 hours

I’m really touched by the comments received on the first post of the Unexpected series, the story of how I met the man in my life, Sayo. If you’ve left a comment, I thank you; reading them warmed my heart! If you want catch up, please do so by reading how it all started.

After Sayo and I met that Saturday morning, we spoke later in the day. He wanted to know how I felt about the way that we were introduced to each other. He was direct and no-nonsense, just like my first impression of him. I probably enjoy more nonsense than the average person, but since reaching my 30s, single males to me are either a potential spouse or Continue reading

Unexpected: how it started

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I may not be the girl I used to be in matters of the heart but the optimism I felt at the end of that blog post remains today, though it has been a journey.

Single and happy

Last November when I shared what had changed between the 31-year-old me who thought marriage was imminent and the current version of me, I was several months into getting to know a young man who we can call Sayo because that’s his name. I deliberately didn’t talk mention him on my blog because Continue reading

Thirty-eight

Happy Birthday Jummy 2017 – Photo by Emmanuel Arowele

What an honour it is to celebrate another year on this earth! I am so thankful to God to be alive, and I’m thankful for my life.

The past year went by so quickly—as they tend to do these days—but it was also a very memorable year. I’m looking forward to the year that starts today because I have some big things planned that I’m praying will come to pass. I’ve spent parts of this past week reflecting on my life to this point and while it’s nice to be able to reflect and look back, as Ayodeji Megbope said in this inspiring King Women episode, the past is the past and you can’t do anything about it. As long as we’re alive our time is better spent looking forward and in my case, not only looking forward and dreaming of what I want in my future but taking action to make those dreams a reality. Continue reading