I am not very familiar with Nigerian men (having never dated one, and I don’t think my brothers count as typical Nigerian men since they are for all intents and purposes Canadian), and perhaps I’m very cruel to pin the following on Nigerian men because other men do this, I’m sure, but I wanted to [...]
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My thoughts on sex before marriage are here and here. I have been lucky to have never been tempted to have sex with any man. This is what happens when you are single, single, single. Whenever the issue of sex comes up with a guy, oftentimes (I didn’t say all the time) he will say [...]
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So, did you listen to Vera’s blog talk show on Saturday? You know, the show about women in their 30s and older who are accomplished and single?
If you didn’t, you’re in luck: you can hear the show in its entirety here. It’s two hours long. Don’t say I didn’t warn you. I almost can’t believe [...]
Filed under: Blogging, Naija men, Relationships, Traveling to Nigeria by goodnaijagirl
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I recently stumbled across this article about a woman’s dilemma regarding changing her name after marriage, and it reminded me of a site (and a book) by blogger Ariel, called Offbeat Bride, which is about taking pride in elements of your wedding that might not be conventional. One topic that the blog (and probably the [...]
Filed under: Naija men, Nigerian girls, Non-Nigerians, Relationships by goodnaijagirl
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How did you celebrate Nigeria’s 48th year of independence? Me, I put on clothing that best matched the definition of “business attire” (since I don’t like the traditional clothing I own—more on that later) and drove to an event the HC was hosting. Even as I got ready for the event, I wondered if it [...]
Filed under: Finding a good Naija man, Naija men, Nigerian girls by goodnaijagirl
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I’m back on meetnigerians.net (for now anyway). I reactivated my account last night.
I left the new dating site I had joined (blacksingles.com)
The guy from the party never called
This past weekend’s Naija party yielded no eligible males for me to accidentally stare at. The music at the event was great though.
Tuface will be coming [...]
Filed under: Naija men, Online dating, Personal by GoodNaijaGirl
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