Comments on: On thinking I’ve got it going on

By: African Weight loss

African Weight loss — Mon, 23 Feb 2009 17:48:44 +0000

Yeah, happens to all of us. And some times you just sit back and remember………and laugh!

By: mizcynic

mizcynic — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 08:59:03 +0000

i lost the love of my life. he once said"sometimes i feel like u do my thinking for me"……

By: Enkay

Enkay — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 13:07:33 +0000

I like that you are able to truly laugh at yourself in hindsight.

Gal issues are no small issues at all! lol!

By: Olufunke

Olufunke — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 10:01:20 +0000

I feel you, I have been there many times

I loose my self confidence a lot of times, feel less of myself, until after a while……God helps me know that the way people treat me is not a correct indicator of who I real am.

I love the way you write about yourself.

Ciao

By: Writefreak

Writefreak — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 07:31:43 +0000

I understand this post sweetie, there have been several times in the past that i've thought..yah i gorit! And alas a few days later, i know i haven't….then i fall back on my knees and cling to my father in heaven and He gives me the strength to go on and keep believing that one day i will indeed get it!

Ps: it can be anything i want at the time!

By: Adaeze

Adaeze — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 06:28:42 +0000

no GNG it really does make sense, lol no worries I totally understand you :-) I've been there too. Funny how life plays tricks on you huh.

By: mpb

mpb — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 20:17:46 +0000

Just wanted to add my story. My most recent ex…I won't lie, i was cuter than him (at least everyone told me so..lol). We looked up our horoscope compatibility and it said I had the tendency to break his heart. I was not entirely sure of my feelings for and attraction to him but figured I would stop being shallow and give the relationship a chance at least till May 2009 when i would be relocating. Next thing the heifer came to me back then in May 08 and said he thinks we should see other people, that I am not affectionate enough for him!!!! I was like, are you freaking serious??? How could this be happening, i was supposed to be leaving him!!! He was the sure thing, the not so cute, chubby, good, sensitive guy who would eat right out of my fingers. Well needless to say I was humbled. LOL.

By: mpb

mpb — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 20:11:11 +0000

Hello GNG!!! Nice post as usual. Shoo it reminded me of when i used to think I was the hottest chick in the area (teenage years) then realized guys didnt like gangly, they liked curves. Then in my early 20s I JUST KNEW that my awesome, unique personality was my mojo, and then I got dropped/heartbroken more than once. Yep, I have definitely received some lessons in humility in my life, so i can identify. Gotta chuckle at some life lessons.

By: naijagirl

naijagirl — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 17:55:12 +0000

It takes a wise person to find humor in such a situation rather than finding a way to internalize things or push the self esteem down.

By: Danny Bagucci

Danny Bagucci — Wed, 18 Feb 2009 17:45:10 +0000

guess the "thinking you have a thing going with someone and then it all gets blown out of the water thing" happens to lots of people; not just guys or just girls; so its not neccesarily a reflection of you if he fits into one of the six categories you've identified. Chances are that most guys would fit into one of those buckets, and only a relatively small proportion of guys at any given time would be looking to go a step further.. Maybe its more a case of living prepared, cos if the people i talk to know what they are saying, the real deal doesn't appear with whistles and sirens, it typically takes time….