On financial freedom

March 2, 2012

My latest obsession is financial freedom, a term you hear tossed around a lot, especially in the world of those trying to help people get rich.

The predictably long introduction that gives you more background information than you want (or need):

My family is lower-middle class: both of my grandfathers were farmers in Nigeria. My parents did not grow up in houses with plumbing (typical, I imagine, for their generation in Nigeria) and even today, my grandparents live in pretty much the same conditions as they did 30 years ago: their houses do not have an indoor kitchen or indoor plumbing. I think most of my grandparents’ contemporaries own or inherited a home.

My dad worked for six years after finishing high school before coming to North America to study. If he had not received a full scholarship he would have kept working with a goal of earning enough to go to a good school because his love of learning and his belief that it (knowledge) would lead to freedom were the driving factors in his pursuit of higher education. But back to the point of this entry: money. After my dad finished his schooling, and after my parents concluded that their four kids might be best served staying in Canada, given the uncertain economy in Nigeria, they entered into what I’ve always called a typical immigrant experience. Those early years were coloured with extreme budgeting and stretching money as far as it could go. Second-hand shops were known to us. My parents’ strong work ethic led to them work as much as they could but they always put us children first: we never had babysitters because they didn’t have family to watch us and they couldn’t trust strangers with their most precious possession. They just worked their schedules around us until I was old enough to babysit.

My parents rented various living spaces for us in different cities until they bought a house in 1998, shortly after my dad got a permanent job with a secure employer. They’re about halfway through paying their mortgage I think, and given their ages (late 50s/early 60s) they are years behind their Canadian counterparts, who have paid off their homes by that age.

If I asked my parents, I think they’d say that their financial situation has improved from those early days in Canada. I feel bad that they’re still working so hard without feeling like they’re making quick progress. I don’t think they’ll feel comfortable retiring until they’ve paid off the house but I don’t want them to physically work so hard anymore. But God has been good and we have been blessed. Every parent dreams that their children will be able to live a better life than their own, and have more money or material possessions with which to do it, and my parents are no different. When I bought my house (I have a 25-year mortgage, of course!) just before I turned 30 years of age, they were very proud and happy for me. When I bought a new car last year (to be paid off in the next 4-5 years hopefully!), they were again pleased. They (and I) hope that my siblings will be able to do even better when the time comes.

But the ability to do these things comes down to money. I definitely didn’t have the money to pay for either of my purchases in cash, but it was important for me to make a significant downpayment on the house. If my dad hadn’t encouraged me to invest whatever I could starting in my late teens, and if I hadn’t schooled in the same town that my parents lived in, I would probably have had a lot more debt than I had when I finished school, and buying a house or a car would not have been possible until I paid off my debt. Although my parents didn’t pay for my schooling, they provided me with a safe and secure home in which to live, which allowed me to save the money needed for the downpayment (after paying off my student loans). The good example they set with living within their means rubbed off on me and I learned how to be disciplined enough to manage my money in a way that I could pay my bills once I was living on my own.

What was the point of this entry again?
So back to my newfound interest in financial freedom. I was complacent because I thought I was doing well: I have a plan in place to pay off my house in a little less than 25 years and I increased my bi-weekly payments at the end of the last year so I can pay off my car sooner. But could I do better? I never thought to ask that question until near the end of last year because I was satisfied with my efforts. After getting inspired by a colleague’s examination of her finances I decided to look at my own. That led to me reading The Automatic Millionaire: Canadian Edition: A Powerful One-Step Plan to Live and Finish Rich this week and after that I was inspired do more. The original book was written for an American audience so those of you who are interested can check it out.

The information the book provides is very practical. The first principle is to “pay yourself first”, and take advantage of the opportunity to make contributions to your RRSPs (retirement savings, the Canadian equivalent of the 401(k)) before taxes are taken off your income, reducing your taxable income. The “automatic” part of the plan is to set up everything—contributions to your savings and payment of debts—as automatic withdrawals or transfers, so that you don’t have to count on yourself to be disciplined: just set it up once and everything happens by magic.

One of the examples given in the book is of a couple who bought a house, paid it off as soon as possible, bought another house and kept the first home as a rental property, the profits from which were no doubt used to pay off the new house as soon as possible. Guess what? I want to do the same thing! Owning more than one piece of property wasn’t something I ever aspired to—I’d be happy to own one—but when you read a book like that it’s hard not to be inspired to make your money work hard for you and make things like this happen.

Nigeria versus Canada (or the USA)
One thing I like about home ownership in Nigeria is if you say you’ve bought a home it’s actually 100% yours in most cases: you can build your house at your own pace and when it’s finished there’s no mortgage to worry about. If I had to wait until I could pay for a house in cash before buying, I’d never be a homeowner! The interest I’ll pay at the end of the whole thing is annoying to think of, but the only way to minimize interest payments on a mortgage is to pay it off as fast as you can.

I don’t know if the Nigerian government has programs to encourage Nigerians to save for their future. I think some employers must offer pensions that are paid to the employee upon retirement but I really don’t know if that’s the case. I also don’t have a good sense of the general attitude toward money in Nigeria, especially saving for the future so please educate me:

  1. What is the general feeling among Nigeria-based Nigerians about saving for the future, debt, and being economical?
  2. What is your approach to money: Are you frugal? Do you invest? Are you dealing with debt?
  3. What are your future goals with regard to financial freedom? Do you have a plan to get there?

If you’re lucky enough to be employed, I hope you’ll think about saving some of your earnings for your future, both long-term and for a rainy day. If you’re in debt and feel hopeless about the future don’t! I promise you that with consistent work to pay down what you owe, it will go down. You will and can get financially free.

Thankful jar, thankful post

February 23, 2012

I haven’t made time to give thanks in a while and it’s not because I’m not thankful: when I wake up it’s a delight to still be alive in this world. When I make plans for the future and I’m able to accomplish them (even if it’s just an hour in advance), I’m happy. But don’t be fooled: I don’t walk around thanking God all the time (and it’s a shame I don’t!). I often let my woes (work and relationship related especially) get to me and stop me from seeing the big picture, from focusing on the good in my life.

A friend of mine pointed me to Richellephant’s blog that has a neat idea on how to keep track of things that have made you happy over the past year in a tangible way: make a Happy Jar! Richelle’s focus is on things that make her happy, while mine will be on things that I’m thankful for…kind of the same thing, really. I’ll be visiting my local dollar store (after first checking my parents’ house first) to see if I can find the perfect jar for this project. I want to take the time to decorate the jar too…I miss being crafty/creative.

Since my jar isn’t ready yet, let me share my thankful list the old fashioned way. I am thankful for:

  1. My loving mother: she gives and gives and gives without getting sick of it! That makes me sick (hehe)! It also humbles me immeasurably because if she can be so willing to cook a meal for her grown children or her friend, after working in a job that requires her to stand all day, and given her many medical concerns, how much more should I be willing to serve her or others around me? She’s the best example of a good neighbour I know of. I feel bad that I’m not as motivated as she is to serve and I’m constantly inspired by her. Her heart is so huge. When I say I’m tired, how can I really compare that to what a woman 25 years my senior is going through? I don’t know how to communicate what I’m trying to say but I always thank God for my mom.
  2. My friends. From listening to me to feeding me, they treat me so well. I hope they’re getting a good friend out of their relationship with me!
  3. Spring-like weather, though I’m told winter will be rearing its ugly head soon enough.
  4. The free resources offered by my local library. I’ve always been a fan of the library, but now it’s not just for books: last week I attended a presentation about starting a business and yesterday’s presentation was about branding and brand image. Both were very informative and got me excited about entrepreneurship. There was even a workshop about the blogging or website software WordPress, but it looked like they’d be covering pretty basic stuff so I didn’t attend. If you have access to a library in your area I’d recommend you check them out. Libraries are about a lot more than books nowadays.
  5. Family Day, the holiday we had this past Monday. I actually spent the day with my family and it was a nice day. I wish we could have Monday off every week!

I hope you have a few things to be thankful for!

Christmas card trivia

February 20, 2012

Last year I offered to send the first 20 commenters on this entry a handmade Christmas card.

Unfortunately Myne didn’t receive her card, so I decided to check with those who hadn’t already contacted me to see if they got their cards. Then I decided to do a little trivia of card-related stuff:

  • Number of people who signed up: 20
  • Number of people who sent me their mailing address: 15 (nine in North America, four in Europe, two in Africa). I sent an email reminder to those who hadn’t sent their address in.
  • Number of cards mailed by me: 15
  • Number of people who confirmed receipt of their card: 9
  • Number of people who confirmed they did not receive the card: 4
  • Number of people I didn’t hear from (but I hope they got their card!): 2

I’m so disappointed that four cards went missing: two that were sent to the USA and two that went to Nigeria. I’m most surprised about the USA-bound cards, given the proximity of Canada and USA, and given the relatively reliable postal services in both countries. My guess is those cards were casualties of a busy Christmas season and I wonder how many cards get lost during heavier-than-normal mailing seasons. I still think it’s an unusually high number of cards to lose though!

The Nigeria-bound cards not reaching their destination did not surprise me: my skepticism of Nigeria’s postal system (from past experience rather than assumption) is a reason why I normally don’t offer to mail cards to Nigeria. After I mailed the cards I realized that the fact that they were a bit 3-dimensional worked against them: someone in the mail-sorting department might have thought there was something in the cards and ripped open the envelope, only to see some fabric and other crafty goodness instead. Having destroyed the envelope, what else could they do but throw the card away?

A friend of mine from Europe says the same thing would happen if she tried sending something like the cards I made to her home country. Her mom does something clever though: she doesn’t seal the envelope! That way if an opportunistic thief curious person who wants to see the contents of the envelope can without damaging the envelope. If they are not interested in a handmade card addressed to someone else they can simply close or seal the envelope and keep it moving. Of course someone might be rotten and simply throw the card away anyway, in punishment for the lack of a prize within the card. I will try this trick next year.

I also received Christmas cards, from reader Gochi and Clara…lucky me!

I love receiving mail that isn’t a bill, and I think a lot of people do. But as we do less writing on paper and more typing, the art of sending letters or cards may soon die. Because of that I want to write thank you cards this year for situations where I’d normally just say thank you in person. I can still say thank you, but I’ll also share a card too. I’ll start with a thank you card for my neighbour, who left a loaf of banana bread and a Christmas card on my doorstep (so nice!).

On finding focus on your blog

February 8, 2012

I started this blog on January 14, 2008 at goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com, and moved it to goodnaijagirl.com on Canada Day, July 1, 2008. I can’t believe it’s been four years already! Although I’ve been blogging for what will be 10 years this November (blogging is the most consistent thing I’ve ever done!), I wanted a space where I could talk about my experience as a Nigerian Canadian with people who might understand that “caught-between-two-cultures” feeling I wanted to express. Although I eat Nigerian food regularly (thanks to my mom!) and take part in events hosted by the local Nigerian associations, I have pretty much kept my Nigerian activities separate from my Canadian friends (because I can’t cook and I’m not as hospitable as most Nigerians are).

I’ve been thinking a lot about my goals for this blog, the Nigerian Blog Awards site, and All my single ladies, and comparing those goals to my progress in the past four, two-and a half, and almost-two years respectively to make those blogs what I wanted them to be. I’ve had moments of great inspiration for blog posts but overall, I feel like I’ve been coasting a bit, blogging what I want to blog at the moment without checking the idea for the blog post against the overall goal and flow of this blog in particular. The bigger problem is my goals for the blogs were vague and not written down anywhere. I don’t have anything to compare my progress to except a feeling that things aren’t always where I expected or wanted them to be in 2012.

It may seem like I’m making big a deal of nothing because this is “just a blog” and on top of that this blog belongs to me so I can do whatever I want with it. However, what has come through to me from all my reading is the importance of focusing my blogs. Just because I have 101 things that I’d like to talk about doesn’t mean I have do it all on one blog, or all at once. I want this blog to have better flow between entries, more consistency in when entries are posted. I want to make sure that visitors get what they expect from the blog, from me. There’s a lot to be said for having a plan for your blog and following it. With a plan I’ll be able to better measure whether my site is reaching its target audience and from there, I can figure out how to evaluate whether it’s bringing value to the awesome readers.

If you’re struggling with this idea of focusing your blog, the solution is simple: set goals, review them regularly, and work weekly (though daily would be better!) to achieve them. And, if you’re a procrastinator like me, you’ll have to hire a life coach to force you to do what you need to do (anyone know a life coach who works for free?).

Thanks to aloted, I came across a video by Tyler Perry called How to be Successful. In it, Mr. Perry says:

“Narrow your focus to one idea. One. And make it work. That will give birth to all of the others. All you can do is plant the seed and water it. God himself has to give the increase. Only God can make the sun shine. Only God can bring the rain. But if you planted the seed you’ve done your part.”

The part about focus really spoke to me because I’m notoriously all over the place and unfocused. In the end I don’t end up moving forward; I just sort of stay in the same place.

Speaking of focus, one thing that I really enjoy talking about is blogging. The last few entries I’ve drafted (but not posted) have been about blogging but I know for some readers it’s not their cup of tea.

Do you like reading about blogging?

GNG cooks: Broiled dodo

February 1, 2012

So many of my favourite Nigerian treats are deep-fried: chin chin, puff puff, and dodo. I’ve wanted to try broiling dodo instead of frying it for a long time so I finally decided to do it last night.

I started with two plantains (shocking!).

I washed them (my mom always washes plantains before peeling them).

I peeled them. Before you think I’m a poor plantain peeler (try saying that three times fast!), this batch of plantain that I bought had this weird “bark” (like tree bark) thing on it so it didn’t peel nicely. Has anyone ever had that happen to them before?

I added some olive oil to a bowl…

…added the sliced plantain to the oil, sprinkled them with a tiny bit of salt, and tossed them to coat the plantains with oil.

Then I broiled them.

I set the oven to 400°F at first and broiled them for 7 minutes. They didn’t really brown. I flipped them and increased the oven temperature to 450°F. After 7 minutes they were browning a bit more. I flipped them again and browned the first side for a couple minutes longer.

The final product:

My verdict? They’re pretty tasty, but they ended up a bit mushy. They also stuck to the foil so I think I have to spray the foil with that non-stick spray next time. I prefer the fried version though! I’m thinking as long as you don’t let the plantains get too mushy before frying them, the oil probably doesn’t get into the plantains so maybe the fried version isn’t too bad for you. That being said, I will try the broiled version again, with a few tweaks (firmer plantains, non-stick cooking spray, and 425°F-450°F to start).

On giving God the praise in all circumstances

January 26, 2012

While thinking about all that I have to be thankful for, this song came to mind:

This song was written by the worship and multicultural ministries pastor at my church and he’s the one singing in the video above. The song doesn’t sound like it usually does because at church there are a ton of other instruments and singers accompanying the instruments. The words are great!

So, what am I giving God the praise for this week?

  1. For the way my parents love me. I have never doubted their love for me, and this feeling just grows. The older I get the closer I feel to my parents. I am so thankful for who they are and how devoted they are to my siblings and I. I am truly blessed.
  2. The unbelievable generosity of my friends. I signed up to raise $1,000 for a cause dear to my heart (finding a cure for diabetes) and my deadline to raise this money is May 26, four months from today. Already my generous friends have helped me reach 39% of my goal. Every time I get a notification of another donation my heart just swells. By supporting me financially these people are also supporting my upcoming 5K run/walk and I am so motivated to train my heart out.
  3. My “just enough and not too much” house. My colleague told me about a cute book with the title Just Enough and Not Too Much that teaches kids to be happy with what they have and to not want more things than they actually need because a cluttered life is often not a happier one. Although the book is for kids we can all learn that lesson. My two-bedroom house has plenty of room for me, but I have this tendency to be a packrat, to the point that I’ve been telling myself that I need a bigger house. But will that encourage more of my packrat behaviour? Probably, which will lead to me being grumpier and stressed (that’s what having too much stuff does to me!).
  4. My church. I’ve been going to this church for just over a year and I feel freer and more able to express myself at this church than I did in my old church that I attended for 20 years. I know that my former church must have prepared me in some way for this church but it’s still so great to feel this way. The sermons too are really good (though I need to work on applying them).
  5. People who are following their dreams and making things happen, because they inspire me. One really can go from having an idea, to posting pictures of it or publicizing it to Facebook, to registering a company or buying a storefront. I was very excited to see someone reaching the next stage in accomplishing their life goal.
  6. Unanswered prayers, even though I’m disappointed by the answer. It’s funny because I don’t know if I actually feel thankful for this quite yet…but I hear you should give thanks in all circumstances so I’m trying this on for size!

I hope you have plenty to be thankful for! To close, here’s another original song by Pastor Paulo.

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