Run your own race when seeking love

The singles conference I attended at RCCG a week ago was similar to last year’s event: not many older people and no division of the attendees by age group. This year they divided us by sex and each group had a pastor of the opposite sex share a mini sermon with them. Our pastor encouraged us women to position ourselves physically (by doing good works with a pure heart) and spiritually (through prayer); this part resonated with me and he used some good analogies. We had an initial brainstorming session about what men want in women—I think we women know what men want, but I would have liked to hear from the men on how well our answers matched their own response and vice versa. I intend to share some feedback about the event with the organizers. The woman who organizes the event with her husband are good people who … Continue reading