TGIF and appreciating when things go wrong

Thank God it’s Friday! I am really looking forward to imitating a professional sleeper this weekend, when I’m not doing a little bit of socializing with friends.

I am thankful for the following things which happened over the past couple of weeks:

  • A pregnant friend found out she’s having a baby boy and that he’s growing nicely within her.
  • A conflict with a friend brought us closer than we were previously instead of driving us apart as it had the potential to.
  • I went on a challenging work trip (I had to work in a language I’m not comfortable in) and came back safe and sound. I travelled with a colleague and the trip made me appreciate many things, including other colleagues that I’ve travelled with in the past.
  • My friend’s upcoming marriage and the signs I’ve seen that he loves his wife-to-be.
  • The amazing friendships that have started on my blog and moved beyond that.
  • That I get to see my closest friends once a week, including a friend that I wasn’t seeing so regularly until we started our weekly swimming lessons.
  • That a colleague and friend delivered a healthy baby boy yesterday and I’m looking forward to meeting him.

Commuting by bus is a huge part of my life and a very frustrating one too. The bus service where I live was recently improved (thanks, tax dollars!). However, my old annoyances with the bus, such as the fact that it comes earlier than indicated so I miss it, hasn’t gone away. This morning was no exception. Thankfully, I have access to my parents’ car because they are away so I hopped in it, with a plan to drive to the bus station where I could catch some other buses. As I put my purse in the passenger’s seat, guess what I saw when I looked down? My wallet! I would have arrived at work, wallet-less, frantically trying to remember which of the two stores I had last seen it in, or wondering whether I had left it at my parents’ place. I am therefore thankful (for the first time ever) that I missed the bus this morning!

If you’re ever in a situation where something has gone wrong, try to find the good in it, or if you can’t right then, try to think that maybe there’s a reason bigger than that moment that you will appreciate in the future. It’s not easy to do but my little wallet scenario will serve as my reminder.

Have a great weekend!

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9 Responses to “TGIF and appreciating when things go wrong”

  1. Nice reminder of seeing the silver lining in the grey clouds. Thanks for the encouragement!

  2. lovely blog

  3. Nice one… I have found many reasons to be thankful too…btw… you have not campaigned on your blog for your nomination in the Yadamag Readers Choice Awards http://yadamag.com/yadamag-readers-choice-awards/ :)

  4. I like the appreciation in this. Sometimes when things go wrong, we must learn to look at the bigger picture.

  5. Thank you for reading and for encouraging me with your comments!

  6. Thank you!

  7. Oh I'm honoured, Harry but I'm outclassed in the category I was nominated for! :)

  8. Jaycee! Thank you for commenting and yes, I have to remind myself to look at the big picture because I can very often be a "small picture" kind of girl! :)

  9. nice post and very inspiring. have a good week