Update time

  • I’m back on meetnigerians.net (for now anyway). I reactivated my account last night.
  • I left the new dating site I had joined (blacksingles.com)
  • The guy from the party never called
  • This past weekend’s Naija party yielded no eligible males for me to accidentally stare at. The music at the event was great though.
  • Tuface will be coming to a location 5 hours away but prior commitments mean I can’t go! I’m sad!
  • A new guy on meetnigerians.net that I met yesterday didn’t call when he said he would. It’s fine though because we have no online conversational chemistry (new GNG terminology).
  • This guy that I almost met, if not dated, talks to me when he sees me on msn (I deleted him but didn’t block him so he can still see me). I have pretty good conversational chemistry with him; it’s a shame he’s a bit shady. We can joke with each other so easily.
  • I spent a good 30 minutes talking on messenger to this guy I never dated. Since I last spoke to him (within six months) he had bought a car and moved over 7 hours away by plane to a small town to start a new life. I told him I was happy for him making such big independent moves and we talked about knowing what you want and going for it. I really admire people who can do things like that, since I’m such a scaredy cat. It’s a shame things didn’t work out with him (no chemistry or physical attraction on my side whatsoever) because I know he’s a good man—he reminds me of my dad. I’m happy that despite the size of the town he has met a Yoruba family and I hope he finds a good woman too.

So there you have it! I wouldn’t want you to miss out on what’s hasn’t been happening in my life! Oya, your turn: give me an update on your life.

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6 thoughts on “Update time

  1. just a cosy weekend after last weekend's trans- continental wedding trip.

    i really wish u wud get out more.
    doing things that makes u happy..
    do u have a list of things u wud like to have done, places u want to visit b/4 u get married or turn 30?(depending on whichever comes first)

  2. I've never heard of all those dating sites. My life is so boring, i wish i could go into hibernation! I did update though.

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