Comments on: Where to meet Nigerian men

By: Dee

Dee — Sat, 17 Mar 2012 17:31:46 +0000

I think Nigerian man are liars and cheater, t feel for their wives. I know I dated one and he thought nothing of cheating on his wife, it was like a hobby to him and he bragged about pass affairs before me. I realize he may take the money home, but were is her respect to let him just do that to her just to say I have a man.

By: Juliana

Juliana — Fri, 13 May 2011 00:43:40 +0000

To the God-fearing, tall, good-looking, educated, single and mature Christian Nigerian men out there… my name is Juliana and I am a beautiful, mature and reserved Nigerian young woman seeking to find my soul mate. I realize that I am taking a leap of faith simply by posting this message in a place where anybody can read this. However, I believe that to find a gem, I will have to step out of my comfort zone and do what I have never done before.

So, I welcome any young Nigerian man above 35 years of age who fits the description above to send me a message and keep an open mind. Who knows…you may find in me a friend for a season, a friend for a lifetime or a soulmate. Either way, it will be quite an adventure. I may be reached at souljaney6@gmail.com.

By: Leye Adepoju

Leye Adepoju — Wed, 27 Apr 2011 21:59:59 +0000

hi beautiful girl,
my name is leye and am 33years old i stay in canada also i am a nigerian guy and i am 5'6 tall. i am single and i have my own business anyway if you want to know more about me you can write to me on leye.adepoju@yahoo.ca

By: Mr C

Mr C — Sun, 23 Mar 2008 19:57:51 +0000

Good girl, if you really want to date a Nigerian guy that fits your profile, I think you need to penetrate the active Nigerian community in your area first. Best strategy is get a female Nigerian friend who can introduce you to another (that could introduce you to someone or some long chain like that). I don't know many Nigerians in Canada, but one thing I have personal experiences on is continuous encounter of the Nigerian community in the most remote of towns.
The aunts you chatted about, don't they have daughter you can hang with? That could be good start you know.

By: S Chic

S Chic — Wed, 12 Mar 2008 10:03:07 +0000

Hi dear, honestly, i have this belief that men will be men regardless. You say a nigerian man but you have to be more specific. Include a man with a good heart, and a man that has the fear of God, which is pretty much the most important part. Now, i can't really suggest church because we don't have any in my church either and u're rite, being spiritually fulfilled is way more important than man, they've been trying to send me to redeemed for a while now. With the city, the city is such a big place you will meet all sorts-we don't want u getting hurt abeg. Community- i like this one better, u're guaranteed to meet different kinds as well but atleast u can easily weed them out and u can do quick background check by asking people around. Jeez… ask the parents is funny sha, i don't know if i can trust my folks judgement like that but it's a good thing-atleast u have their blessing already before you start.

Anyway,i'm sure you do this already but take it to God in prayer, be specific bout what you want from him, give deadlines if you want, i've done it before and i trust God like that… just open yourself to the many opportunities and enjoy…

Ok, i just gave a long speech, sorry…lol….

By: Rayo

Rayo — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 11:39:47 +0000

I completely agree with everything that Oya said. Definitely don't go to Nige to find a husband.
1. Chances are he's just trying to get papers
2. Even the girls in Nige are having a hard time finding a good Nigerian guy

You already know what I would recommend. Go to a place where a lot of Nigerians reside, make friends with them and go out often.

By: Oya

Oya — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 09:44:00 +0000

People in Naija, their perception of America/Canada is warped. So the reality of maybe having to start all over with school or factory job may send them into big shock

By: Oya

Oya — Tue, 11 Mar 2008 09:41:35 +0000

Please dont go to Naija and look for a man o! unless u plan on staying in Naija. Even the ones with good intentions, when they land here nah oyinbo they go dey look. I've heard too much horror stories about this.