Comments on: Where to meet Nigerian men http://goodnaijagirl.com/where-to-meet-nigerian-men/ lah dee dah Wed, 08 Sep 2010 01:42:53 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Mr C http://goodnaijagirl.com/where-to-meet-nigerian-men/comment-page-1/#comment-706 Mr C Sun, 23 Mar 2008 23:57:51 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=52#comment-706 Good girl, if you really want to date a Nigerian guy that fits your profile, I think you need to penetrate the active Nigerian community in your area first. Best strategy is get a female Nigerian friend who can introduce you to another (that could introduce you to someone or some long chain like that). I don't know many Nigerians in Canada, but one thing I have personal experiences on is continuous encounter of the Nigerian community in the most remote of towns. The aunts you chatted about, don't they have daughter you can hang with? That could be good start you know. Good girl, if you really want to date a Nigerian guy that fits your profile, I think you need to penetrate the active Nigerian community in your area first. Best strategy is get a female Nigerian friend who can introduce you to another (that could introduce you to someone or some long chain like that). I don’t know many Nigerians in Canada, but one thing I have personal experiences on is continuous encounter of the Nigerian community in the most remote of towns.
The aunts you chatted about, don’t they have daughter you can hang with? That could be good start you know.

]]> By: S Chic http://goodnaijagirl.com/where-to-meet-nigerian-men/comment-page-1/#comment-705 S Chic Wed, 12 Mar 2008 15:03:07 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=52#comment-705 Hi dear, honestly, i have this belief that men will be men regardless. You say a nigerian man but you have to be more specific. Include a man with a good heart, and a man that has the fear of God, which is pretty much the most important part. Now, i can't really suggest church because we don't have any in my church either and u're rite, being spiritually fulfilled is way more important than man, they've been trying to send me to redeemed for a while now. With the city, the city is such a big place you will meet all sorts-we don't want u getting hurt abeg. Community- i like this one better, u're guaranteed to meet different kinds as well but atleast u can easily weed them out and u can do quick background check by asking people around. Jeez... ask the parents is funny sha, i don't know if i can trust my folks judgement like that but it's a good thing-atleast u have their blessing already before you start. Anyway,i'm sure you do this already but take it to God in prayer, be specific bout what you want from him, give deadlines if you want, i've done it before and i trust God like that... just open yourself to the many opportunities and enjoy... Ok, i just gave a long speech, sorry...lol.... Hi dear, honestly, i have this belief that men will be men regardless. You say a nigerian man but you have to be more specific. Include a man with a good heart, and a man that has the fear of God, which is pretty much the most important part. Now, i can’t really suggest church because we don’t have any in my church either and u’re rite, being spiritually fulfilled is way more important than man, they’ve been trying to send me to redeemed for a while now. With the city, the city is such a big place you will meet all sorts-we don’t want u getting hurt abeg. Community- i like this one better, u’re guaranteed to meet different kinds as well but atleast u can easily weed them out and u can do quick background check by asking people around. Jeez… ask the parents is funny sha, i don’t know if i can trust my folks judgement like that but it’s a good thing-atleast u have their blessing already before you start.

Anyway,i’m sure you do this already but take it to God in prayer, be specific bout what you want from him, give deadlines if you want, i’ve done it before and i trust God like that… just open yourself to the many opportunities and enjoy…

Ok, i just gave a long speech, sorry…lol….

]]> By: Rayo http://goodnaijagirl.com/where-to-meet-nigerian-men/comment-page-1/#comment-704 Rayo Tue, 11 Mar 2008 16:39:47 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=52#comment-704 I completely agree with everything that Oya said. Definitely don't go to Nige to find a husband. 1. Chances are he's just trying to get papers 2. Even the girls in Nige are having a hard time finding a good Nigerian guy You already know what I would recommend. Go to a place where a lot of Nigerians reside, make friends with them and go out often. I completely agree with everything that Oya said. Definitely don’t go to Nige to find a husband.
1. Chances are he’s just trying to get papers
2. Even the girls in Nige are having a hard time finding a good Nigerian guy

You already know what I would recommend. Go to a place where a lot of Nigerians reside, make friends with them and go out often.

]]> By: Oya http://goodnaijagirl.com/where-to-meet-nigerian-men/comment-page-1/#comment-703 Oya Tue, 11 Mar 2008 14:44:00 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=52#comment-703 People in Naija, their perception of America/Canada is warped. So the reality of maybe having to start all over with school or factory job may send them into big shock People in Naija, their perception of America/Canada is warped. So the reality of maybe having to start all over with school or factory job may send them into big shock

]]> By: Oya http://goodnaijagirl.com/where-to-meet-nigerian-men/comment-page-1/#comment-702 Oya Tue, 11 Mar 2008 14:41:35 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=52#comment-702 Please dont go to Naija and look for a man o! unless u plan on staying in Naija. Even the ones with good intentions, when they land here nah oyinbo they go dey look. I've heard too much horror stories about this. Please dont go to Naija and look for a man o! unless u plan on staying in Naija. Even the ones with good intentions, when they land here nah oyinbo they go dey look. I’ve heard too much horror stories about this.

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