Comments on: Why I like Naija men: they get the family thing http://goodnaijagirl.com/why-i-like-naija-men-they-get-the-family-thing/ lah dee dah Thu, 09 Feb 2012 09:39:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: notperfectdotcom http://goodnaijagirl.com/why-i-like-naija-men-they-get-the-family-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-867 notperfectdotcom Sat, 26 Apr 2008 20:56:15 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-867 Hey girlie, quit generalizing before I hurt you...you simply have not found the right guy "oyibo" or not...do you know the first time my fella met my mom, he actually "dobale-d" (sp) to her. I told him what was expected and because he loves me, he did what was neccesary to gain my mother's approval. Did I also mention this man is in his 40s?? Well then. Now you know. Hey girlie, quit generalizing before I hurt you…you simply have not found the right guy "oyibo" or not…do you know the first time my fella met my mom, he actually "dobale-d" (sp) to her. I told him what was expected and because he loves me, he did what was neccesary to gain my mother's approval. Did I also mention this man is in his 40s?? Well then. Now you know.

]]> By: Oya http://goodnaijagirl.com/why-i-like-naija-men-they-get-the-family-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-866 Oya Thu, 24 Apr 2008 09:11:37 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-866 I wish this ur friend all the best o! Online dating can be scary. I wish this ur friend all the best o! Online dating can be scary.

]]> By: Vera Ezimora http://goodnaijagirl.com/why-i-like-naija-men-they-get-the-family-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-865 Vera Ezimora Thu, 24 Apr 2008 02:20:08 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-865 It's definitely the culture difference thingy. The fact of the matter is that we all have our issues: men, women, Naija, American...all of us. But thank God 4 ur friend sha. It's definitely the culture difference thingy. The fact of the matter is that we all have our issues: men, women, Naija, American…all of us. But thank God 4 ur friend sha.

]]> By: sherri http://goodnaijagirl.com/why-i-like-naija-men-they-get-the-family-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-864 sherri Wed, 23 Apr 2008 13:39:33 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-864 yes o, the family thing is nice but, their (parents)over-involvement can turn the simplest issues to complex ones. am smack in the middle of it right now.. yes o, the family thing is nice but, their (parents)over-involvement can turn the simplest issues to complex ones.

am smack in the middle of it right now..

]]> By: aphrodite http://goodnaijagirl.com/why-i-like-naija-men-they-get-the-family-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-863 aphrodite Wed, 23 Apr 2008 09:50:12 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-863 Truth is we have different values and cultures. Its better to stick to what's familiar. Online dating...am not too comfortable with it but i wish ur friend the best of luck. Truth is we have different values and cultures.
Its better to stick to what's familiar.

Online dating…am not too comfortable with it but i wish ur friend the best of luck.

]]> By: ms emotions http://goodnaijagirl.com/why-i-like-naija-men-they-get-the-family-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-862 ms emotions Wed, 23 Apr 2008 07:43:51 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-862 LMAO ... u know i think its about the training given to us at younger age, like when we were teenagers, but i dont think its totlly bad esp. if one is still livin wit ones parents, our culture expects it of us but some people dont really care, but personally i dont see a prob in it not unless it gets to a stage where u ve onbe have to find out if its ok to kiss a new man...lol LMAO …

u know i think its about the training given to us at younger age, like when we were teenagers, but i dont think its totlly bad esp. if one is still livin wit ones parents, our culture expects it of us but some people dont really care,
but personally i dont see a prob in it not unless it gets to a stage where u ve onbe have to find out if its ok to kiss a new man…lol

]]> By: sting http://goodnaijagirl.com/why-i-like-naija-men-they-get-the-family-thing/comment-page-1/#comment-861 sting Tue, 22 Apr 2008 09:57:55 +0000 http://goodnaijagirl.wordpress.com/?p=85#comment-861 I agree totally. I think it's just the culture difference. I really don't understand why anyone would think an 18yr old is GROWN. I barely knew my left from my right at 18 (although i wouldn't have thot so back then). My mom doesn't think any of her children are grown until they are in her husband's house. Her exact words. I fear to think what would happen if i never got married. I agree totally. I think it's just the culture difference. I really don't understand why anyone would think an 18yr old is GROWN. I barely knew my left from my right at 18 (although i wouldn't have thot so back then). My mom doesn't think any of her children are grown until they are in her husband's house. Her exact words. I fear to think what would happen if i never got married.

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